tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4565013304010554500.post4049338493847391562..comments2012-12-26T22:57:44.434+00:00Comments on After Al: Sometimes you’ve just got to laugh ...Beverleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13414769033071262761noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4565013304010554500.post-55249365407124676572011-11-26T16:40:40.449+00:002011-11-26T16:40:40.449+00:00I think you are recovering a lot of function to co...I think you are recovering a lot of function to contemplate dating. I hope you find some happiness and fun to fill your life a little Beverley, as you (and me both) certainly deserve a little joy...<br /><br />Hmm... about the fella - I actually think if you didn't like the look of him, kicking him to the kerb ain't a bad idea. I think our instints tend to be good. <br /><br />I'm not sure about the comment. OK, it was a stupid, stupid thing to say. I think one of the things I've come to understand though, is people can't handle our children dying. Since M was born, I tend to tell a new person on average once a day. I'm trying not to "rule people out" - (new mummy friends, not boyfriends!!) on the basis of their response - alhtough some of the responses have upset me.<br /><br />For future dates, it might be better to keep the chat light and trivial,so that when or if you finally tell them about Al, they know it is a very serious conversation, and they should not behave like a twat..<br /><br />Sending you a warm hug xSusanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08189847375191755096noreply@blogger.com